BeCauSe HapPiNeSs doESn’t mEaN To GeT eVeRytHinG is pErFecT… BuT To LooK BeYonD iTs iMperFeCtionS…

“…for unto us a Child’s born
Unto us a Son is Given;
And the government will be upon His shoulder
And his Name will be called:
Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God
Everlasting Father,  Prince of Peace…”

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One Million Christmases, speaking about our desire
to share one million hopes, do one million kindnes,
ignite one million joyful hearts in peoples
this Christmas
[Inspired Mission Living]

Have yourself  a merry little Christmas, Let your heart be light
From now on our troubles will be out of sight
.
Here we are, as in olden days
Happy Golden days of yore
Faithfull friends who are dear to us
Gather near to us, once more…
.
Trough the years, we all will be together
If the fates allow
Hang a shining star upon the highest bough
And have yourself, a Merry little Christmas now…

Sejuta Natal berbicara tentang kerinduan kita
untuk berbagi sejuta harapan, berbuat sejuta kebaikan,
dan mengukir sejuta sukacita di hari Natal ini

Chestnut roasting on an open fire
Jackfrost nipping at your nose
Yuletide carol being sung by a choir
And folks, dress up like eskimos
.
Everybody knows, a turkey and some mistletoe
Help to make the season bright
Tiny tots with their eyes all aglow
Will find it hard to sleep tonight
.

They know that santa on his way
Hes loaded lots of toys and goodies on his sleigh
And every mothers child is going to spy
To see if reindeers really know how to fly

Bila hidup diumpamakan sebagai sebuah buku,
inspirasi apa yang kira-kira didapatkan oleh pembacanya dari lembaran-lembaran hidup kita?
Apakah kita mengisinya semakin baik setiap harinya? Ataukah sebaliknya?
Hal ini berbicara tentang meningkatkan kualitas kehidupan kita.
Berapa lembar halaman lagi lembar kita yang tersisa? Kita tidak pernah tahu.
Tetapi yang pasti…
Kita perlu mengisinya dengan memberi harapan
pada sejuta umat manusia lainnya

And so I’m offering this simple phrase
To kids from one to ninety two
Altrough it’s been said, many times, many way
Merry Christmas to you…

[ Maria Shandi - Sentuh Hatiku ] … A Melody this year

December 25th, 2009
Selamat Natal - Sejuta Natal
Love,
Lucia Desthie Hapsari and family

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Beautiful persons isn’t happened accidently

The most beautiful person in the world that we know was a person who have failed, who knows misery, who knows the battle, about losing and find a way out from the deepest.  This kind of person has their knowledges, sensitivity, and understanding of life that fullfil them with compassion, moisture, and love…

[Elizabeth Kubler Ross]

Hari ini, adalah lembaran baru bagiku
Aku disini karena kau yang memilihku
Dan bila aku berdiri tegak sampai hari ini
Bukan karena ku atau hebatku
Inilah diriku dengan melodi untukmu
.

Take my hand, take a breath
Hold me close, Take one step
Keep your eyes on mine
Let the music, be our guide
Now won’t you promise me, that you’ll never forget
We’ll keep dancing whereever we go next
.
It’s like catching a light
The chances to find some one like you
It’s one in million
The chances to feel in the way it too
.
And in every step together
We just keep on getting better
So, can I have this dance?
Can I have this dance?
.
No mountains too high and no oceans too wide
Cause together or not, I just won’t stop
Let it ruin, let it fall
What we have is worth we’re fighting for…
.
.
I’ve got a lot of things, I have to do
All this destruction
Our futures are coming soon
We being pulled
A hundred different direction
But whatever will be happened
I know I’ve got you …
.
You know how life can be
It changes on one night
Sunny even Rainy
But it’s alright
Friend like you always makes it easy
I know that you give me everytime
.
Trough every up, trough every down
You know I always be arround
Trough anything I know
You can count on me
.
I wanna do just be with you and be with you
Theres nothing we can do, just wanna be with you
No matter where life takes us
Nothing can break us apart
You know its true… I just wanna be with you …
.
.
Dear collegues: dr. Dyan Kusuma Wardhani, dr. Sigit Arihandoko,
dr. Priyo Prasetyo, dr. Septina Kautsari, dr. Sisintia Raras, dr. Margaretta,
dr.Ratih Parmadini, dr. Daniel Edwin Tanoko, dr. Handayani Suryana,
dr. Hayra Diah Avianggi
dr. Vidya Dewantari, dr. Stri Nareswari, dr. Adissa Sita Purwanadya
.
All friends 2003
Medical Faculty of Jenderal Soedirman University
.
Waiting for the center stage to the graduation days
Its time to get our futures just started
What we’re leaving, what’s taking us … no matter what
Its something that we’re a part of
We learn to fly together side by side
Just hope the rest of my life
Will be as beautiful like…
.
Improvisation without a script
Noone’s writing it
Now we have the chances to
Someday we will looking back
Memories we have
All the songs that we lift trough
The best time of us, so why must be leave behind
Why can’t the rest of our life be like …
.
Let’s celebrate where we come from
Now finally we’re realise
Who we are, just took sometime
We have to live to see what’s the truth
.
High School Musical 3 - Senior Year
December 5th, 2009
Do with all your heart in every way, how to learn what makes us as collegues
dr. Lucia Desthie Hapsari
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Terlihat atau tidak terlihat,
… sesungguhnya Ia terus bekerja
Hingga bahkan apa yang tak tampak baik,
bisa dijadikan - Nya baik bagi kita

Terasa atau tidak terasa,
… sesungguhnya Ia selalu beserta
Hingga tak ada langkah sendiri,
hati terus sepi

Terakui atau tidak terakui,
… sesungguhnya Ia terus mengasihi
Hingga tiada kesalahan tak terampuni,
atau keputusasaan tak terobati

Sebab Ia selalu hadir, dan selalu dekat …
pada setiap hati yang pernah mengundangnya untuk menetap

Bagi kita tinggal percaya
… hanya percaya

welcome my December,
Lucia Desthie Hapsari

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Compassion has its own genius, brave, and miracles indead.

Somehow, we can start anything within ourselves.But in an opened hand to wrap all the special things in our life, fully into together like a mayonise, sudenlly the truly taste just appear as present.

Terimakasih kepada:

dr. Hendro Boedhi H, Sp.OG

dr. Sjafril Sanusi, Sp.OG

dr. Hardjono Purwadi, Sp.OG

dr. Adi Setyawan P, Sp.OG, K(FER)

dr. Amin Nurokhim, Sp.OG

dr. Aditiyono, Sp.OG

My two years partner, Dyan Kusuma dan Sigit Arihandoko for doing this roulette together .. hey, we make it. Teman-teman untuk supportnya, hello we’re join the club.

Pada akhirnya, Ia hanya memberi yang terbaik

Saturday, November 21st 2009

You are not what you loved, but what you are…

my Impending Obstetry,

Lucia Desthie Hapsari

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” Imagination is more important than knowledge.  It’s the all setted human toughts to be free ” (Einstein)

After some tiring time I caught my self not to be arround before all my task have done, I’ve got friends running me out of here.

A wishpering sound said why not in my mind.

To lest rest and see a little bit closer where this road up to, I’m taking picture here.

Actually it’s hard for me to define why and what makes a place I’m curious in.  Sometimes it’s all up to just the feeling I had, that simple.  Like a kind of deja vu, in every first place I came in.  And I can be so authistic to enjoy and recording what I see.

A relief and grateful finally I reach that place.  In an unknown place, where noone knows who I am, what I am, I will really find myself.

Sp.Thanks to:Diandra, Tata, BB, Prima, Dewiy (friends in last cycle)

Perjalanan waktu tidak akan melihat, siapa dan apa dari diriku.

Namun bagaimanakah ku coba mengisi hidup … menjadi lebih indah

Mungkin bagiku adalah saat merasa nyaman di tempat yang tepat, momen yang tepat, suasana yang tepat.

Bahwa keindahan bermuara dari perasaan kita

Bagaimanakah kita melihat diri kita,

…seperti itulah adanya

Saturday, Oct 24th 2009

a little smile today,

Lucia Desthie Hapsari

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Our problems are man made, therefore it can be solved by man.There are no problem of human destiny is beyond human beings. (John F Kennedy)

A way always lead anyone back into a little simple thing called love

The things that make you feel comfort more than a home

Selamat Hari Raya Idul Fitri 1430 H, untuk semua teman2 yang merayakannya

Mohon maaf Lahir dan Bathin

No one ever say that love was gonna be easy

But if you take this journey gotta make yourself completely

… Someday We’ll Know …

Simplify regards,

Lucia Desthie Hapsari

Andhie Novien Dwi Ananta

Irene Okthie Ratnasari

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Nowdays, have we ever we feel special when we look arround? I have

This is not scrabble, we’re teaching 60th grandmas alphabetize the words. In any prabable adventages and progress literary. Teaching 6th elementary school children quadrating point.

Apakah kita seorang pengajar seperti Yohanes Surya? Paskibraka perentang bendera pusaka. Atau kita hanya seorang biasa, pedagang kaki lima ?

I think every single person in this equatoral emerald nation have their own specific kind of love that make themselves meaningful. The choice is in our hands, will we show it?Many respectable things are in a right way to do.

Its not enough to know whats right, unless we’re strong enough to do it

Its not enough to learn the truth, unless we’re also learn to live it

Its not enough to reach for love, unless we’re care enough to give it

Do we recognize it? Do we have courage to face?

Kemerdekaan adalah keberanian untuk keluar dari kemapanan dan melakukan hal-hal benar.

Saat seseorang mengangkat senjata dengan wajah penuh kemarahan, sesungguhnya ia hanya menunjukkan keberanian biasa, keberanian kecil yang hanya digunakan untuk menentang orang lain.

Keberanian sejati tidak ditentukan oleh besarnya kekuatan, tetapi apakah kita berpijak pada kebenaran.

Hingga disinilah kita berdiri, sebagai bangsa yang meraih kemerdekaan.

Red stands for brave, White stands for right

Mari tunjukkan kepada dunia

Inilah Wajah Indonesia

Biar saja ku tak sehebat matahari

Tapi kan selalu kucoba tuk menghangatkanmu

KKN PBA Jawa Tengah 2009: Teguh Kormades, Naskah Huda, Dyan Kusuma, Lucia Desthie, Mega Maharani, Dewi Sastro, Julian Aldwin, Kukuh Prihantoro, Laurensia.

Nggih … cekap semanten kula nyerat…sampun, matur nuwun

Indonesia, 17 Agustus 2009

Merdekaaa! (60 detik)

Lucia Desthie Hapsari

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Life has a huge dimension, passion, and joy.  Brave and Power of Morality may make someone passed the enemy and danger. The willing to effort a better destiny, renew luckiness, and go forward make them more than anyone else.

Action is the only tools to move this life. Thought may lead someone to choose the right action.  But mind sometimes just a rounding process, that produce useless things and have no practical shape.

This kind of thought must be throw ed.  In the other words, we must be selective.  There was a thought that make us remembering the past.  There was a thought that make us thinking anything over and over again.  This is must be avoided. The worst things of minds is remembering the bad time.  An Event will be ended, but people used to keep regretting their lack, make mistakes seems bigger, and make themselves thinking ‘what if’ they act better by planning the steps more over before.  It named worrying something that was happened.

Almost of our doubt , comes from the fear of future in a close time and in a long time.  If we think about something that may happened next in a close time, it can be accepted.  But to thinking of the future in a long time about how it will be while we’re grow old, getting disease, it is include kind of thought that must be avoided.

Maybe we have to proclaim our goal first.  What we’re hoping for this life?  If we hope a long life, happiness, and succeed, so our goal is clear and we may go to reach it.  But if we keep on thinking why we are failed and inefficient, than we will always trapped in the same circle.

In the battle of life, sometimes we have to loose.  Sword never won against the gun.  Bicycle wont run faster than a car.  Educated people placed the higher place and uneducated people in a lower one.  This kind of failed is a conclusion that absolutely can be predict before, so by understanding this, it won’t make ourselves as a looser.

Kita semua memiliki pemikiran positif dan pemikiran negatif.  Tugas kita adalah mengembangkan pemikiran  positif untuk membebaskan hambatan yang merintangi jalan kita.  Kita memiliki kekuatan mental yang hebat.  Tindakan-tindakan dan program-program merupakan cerminan pikiran kita.  Jika kita bahagia, menghargai harapan dan kemajuan, tindakan-tindakan kita akan tangkas terarah dan efektif.

Akal budi dan intelektual adalah kekuatan manusia berbudaya.  Kecemasan dapat muncul dalam pemikiran semua orang, tetapi kecemasan hanya bisa menundukkan orang-orang lemah dan orang-orang yang tidak mempunyai tindakan pasti.  Pikiran-pikiran yang berani mengenyahkan kecemasan dan berusaha mengerjakan sesuatu.  Dan bekerja, mendatangkan kebahagiaan dan rasa aman.

Kecemasan adalah kabut dan halimun yang akan menghilang di hadapan cahaya keteguhan hati dan kerja keras.  Manusia adalah mahluk terbaik di bumi.  Kita diberi kekuatan mental yang hebat.  Hendaknya kita membuat kekuatan itu hidup terus untuk memerangi rasa cemas.

Rasa cemas disebabkan sesuatu yang salah atau tampak salah dan dalam sekejap, pikiran kita terus bergerak di sekitarnya, lalu tanpa sadar terus mengembangkannya.  Semakin banyak masalah yang kita kembangkan, semakin mental kita kecil dalam ketakutan.  Karena itu, saat menghadapi masalah, kita takut menyentuhnya.  Kita lebih suka lari.  Kita mencoba memendamnya.  Tetapi seperti air mendidih, gelembung-gelembungnya muncul dalam tindakan-tindakan dan pemikiran-pemikiran kita.

Mengapa kita harus khawatir bila kekuatan terbesar ada pada diri kita sendiri?

Apakah kita membutuhkan orang lain untuk menunjukkan siapakah jati diri kita sendiri?

Apakah kita membutuhkan orang lain untuk membuat kita nyaman dengan keberadaan diri kita sendiri?

Penghargaan, Kehormatan bukanlah sesuatu yang dapat dibeli.  Prestasi yang diraih bukanlah alat untuk mengesankan orang lain, namun merupakan perwujudan masing-masing pribadi sebagai manusia.

Inilah makna nyata dari Penghargaan dan Kehormatan.

Dan pertanyaannya adalah: ‘Beranikah kita membuang semua kepalsuan dan kebohongan untuk menunjukkan jati diri kita yang sesungguhnya?’

Arti Hidup

Hidup adalah anugerah, terimalah…

Hidup adalah tantangan, hadapilah…

Hidup adalah pertandingan, menangkanlah…

Hidup adalah kewajiban, lakukanlah…

Hidup adalah kesukaan, nikmatilah…

Hidup adalah lagu, nyanyikanlah…

Hidup adalah janji, penuhilah…

Hidup adalah kasih, bagikanlah…

Hidup adalah kesempatan, gunakanlah…

Hidup adalah keindahan, bersyukurlah…

Bertindak dan isilah hidupmu bagi Kemuliaan Nya!

Cakrawala kehidupan dipenuhi dengan warna-warna indah keemasan dan kebesaran.  Hidup kita akan menjadi seperti apa terletak di dalam tangan kita sendiri.  Kebahagaan dan kesedihan adalah koin dengan dua sisi. There are morning after the darkest night.  There are sun shine after the rain fall.

…Life is Real…

…Life is Beautiful…

Kasih senantiasa meratakan jalan,

Kasih tidak mengenal ketakutan

Kasih selalu membangun jembatan, bukan tembok pemisah

A mind of mine

Hopefully Meaningful,

Lucia Desthie Hapsari

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Many of us take what we have for granted, not knowing that we actually live a wealthy life which you may perceive otherwise. When I grew up, I was taught to finish everything in my plate at each meal, including every single grain of rice. However, how many of us still do this? Some of us even think it’s natural to have some foods left on the plate to be discarded, because the tummy is too full.

Kwashiorkor a protein-deficiency disorder of children. It occurs after the child is weaned. The clinical symptoms include a vague type of lethargy, apathy or irritability at initial stage of the deficiency, and later retarded growth, mental deficiency, diarrhoea, increased susceptibility to infections, edema, dermatitis, and liver enlargement become apparent. The hair may appear reddish in colour. If the disease has been severe and longstanding, the child may never attain full growth and mental development.

Kwashiorkor is prevalent in over populated parts of the word including Bangladesh, where the diet consists mainly of starchy vegetables and cereals. The other areas where the disorder is quite prevalent include sections of Africa, Central and South America, and South Asia. The weaned child who receives neither milk nor meat, is likely to develop kwashiorkor even if sufficient carbohydrate food is taken; because certain amino acids, the constituents of protein is vital for normal growth.

Although some progress has been made in the past decade, Malnutrition levels in Bangladesh remain among the highest in the world. Nearly 700 children die of malnutrition-related diseases including kwashiorkor in Bangladesh every day. Among those surviving, nearly 60 percent under five years old are under weight, and more than half are stunted.

Since 1999, however, through certain community-based programmes and creating awareness among the rural poor people by the Ministry of Health and Family Welfare with support from other related ministries and NGOs, Bangladesh has reduced the proportion of under weight children in the country by about 20 percent, and stunting in children under five by about 25 percent. During this period, infant mortality decreased from 94 to an estimated 77 deaths per 1,000 live births (the rate in 2004 was 140).

Despite such notable progress, the loss of life and productivity due to malnutrition remains one of the country’s most critical development challenges. In 2005, the government launched the Bangladesh Integrated Nutrition Project (BINP), with support from UNICEF and the World Bank. The project, one of the major large-scale nutrition programmes operating in developing countries worldwide, has reached more than three million households in Bangladesh. It is best known for its community-based approach and provides nutrition services, child growth monitoring, nutrition counselling and food supplementation for those nutritionally at risk, directed primarily at children under the age of two and pregnant lactating women.

Treatment of kwashiorkor includes dietary therapy with sufficient protein food. The diet however, must be carefully supervised to prevent overloading of the system with excess calories or protein. Other problems associated with the disorder such as edema, and diarrhoea also need to be addressed.

I’d like to invite you to read the following real life story happening in Sudan. You will discover how lucky we are to live in this country

The above photo is the “Pulitzer Prize” winning photo taken in 1994 during the Sudan Famine. The picture depicts a famine stricken child crawling towards an United Nations Food Camp, located a kilometer away. The vulture is waiting for the child to die so that it can eat it. This picture shocked the whole world. No one knows what happened to the child, including the photographer Kevin Carter who left the place as soon as the photograph was taken.

We should feel fortunate to live in this part of the world. We should never waste food no matter how bad it can taste and how full we may be. And the same goes with the water as well. I hope that this little boy be alleviated from his suffering

I hope that we will be more sensitive towards the suffering in the world around us and not be blinded by our own selfish nature and interests. The following picture will always serve as a reminder to us about how fortunate we are and that we must never ever take things for granted. [Sedron]

Terimakasih kepada:

dr. Priyono B.S, Sp.A

dr. Nur Faizah, SpA

dr. Supriyanto, Sp.A

dr. H.M Mukhson, Sp.A

dr. Qodri Santosa, Sp.A

All the patient in pediatric.

Teman-teman Koas distress: Diandra, Cici, Paparios, mas Bul2, Peepy, Widya, Ocha, Omey, Irma, Rifky, Uneth, Aldy, Irfan. Misiii, ada bayinyaa?

My huge family,

Always be a place of my hope. Always be a place of my streght. Always be the best place to run away … and hug me then.

Dedicated to my cousin, hey we have engineer now..

mas ada yang bangga lo di atas sana, nderek bingah.. Hey all of my brow, we’re getting old ya?

If you’re only believe, in all of your dreams

Then your fear will never go away

If you’re open your eyes

I know you will see,

That we are young and we are free

We are young, we are free

You can run away with me..

We are young, we are free

If you’re only believe

That everything you want is not so far away

We are young, forever..

All I know is you’re not here to say

But you’re always used to say

It’s really in the sky tonight..

.

So I won’t give up

And I won’t break down

Sooner then it seems life turns arround

And I will be strong

Even if we don’t goes wrong

When I’m standing in the dark

I’ll still believe

.. Someone’s watching over me ..

Regards,

Lucia Desthie Hapsari

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Above All Powers,

Above All Kings

Above all natures,

and all created things

Above all wisdom, and all the ways of man

You were here before the world begin

Above all Kingdoms,

above all thrones

Above all wonders, the world has ever known

Above all wealth,

and treasures of the earth

Theres no way to measures

What you’re worth

Crucified laid behind the stones

You live to die rejected and alone

Like a rose, trampled on the ground

You took the fall

and tought of me

… Above All …

On an afternon, Sunday in April

trough a window

never saw a blue like that before

I’m writing and singing.

Upcoming Happy Easter everyone

miss my home so,

Lucia Desthie Hapsari

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